tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-51078029003718675312024-03-09T03:23:34.243+08:00生命真姿彩信念,是翘起地球的那支杠杆!! 【正面 积极 乐观 健康 平安 快乐】Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.comBlogger585125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-27800097578585491402013-01-29T13:04:00.001+08:002013-01-29T13:04:14.678+08:00放下的幸福<br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-53784531039672809032013-01-28T13:24:00.005+08:002013-01-28T13:24:41.237+08:00樂觀是一種習慣<span style="font-family: 宋体;">樂觀的人,是從挫折中「發現希望」。「命好不如習慣好!」「喜悅、樂觀、正面思考」也是一種習慣,它使我們避免自艾自怨、悲觀自嘆!我們可曾想過~~當我們埋怨自己「沒有鞋穿」時,別人「連腳都沒有」!</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-32068797373067696172013-01-24T19:14:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:14:53.541+08:00情緒的四放<br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-47664317472997549622013-01-24T19:13:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:13:52.273+08:00 懂得让自己更好<br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-32876083829588464092013-01-24T19:12:00.003+08:002013-01-24T19:12:41.858+08:00人生跷跷板<span style="font-family: 宋体;">人的一生就像在跷跷板上行走一样。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-13736138976674144962013-01-24T19:11:00.003+08:002013-01-24T19:11:43.959+08:00尊重差異 不挑不棄 <br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-11448688690138890062013-01-24T19:10:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:10:16.655+08:00生活在希望中<span style="font-family: 宋体;">法鼓山主張的「心靈環保」,主要提倡「心」五四運動,包含「四安」、「四它」、「四要」、「四感」和「四福」。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-31550103993449563532013-01-24T19:09:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:09:16.423+08:00擋住你的只是一張紙<span style="font-family: 宋体;">如果了解到自己真正的價值,就會開始愛自己。心中相信自己真正價值的人,是不會傷害別人。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-30291893923759419092013-01-24T19:08:00.000+08:002013-01-24T19:08:18.791+08:00距离愈近 伤害愈深<span style="font-family: 宋体;">不知你是否也覺得,自己</span><span lang="EN-US">EQ</span><span style="font-family: 宋体;">的好壞,其實是因對象而異的。。。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-75512549664140105012013-01-24T19:06:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:06:45.714+08:00不羁的心<span style="font-family: 宋体;">很多的時候,我們需要給自己的生命留下一點空隙,就像兩車之間的安全距離…一點緩衝的餘地,可以隨時調整自己,進退有據!</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-22433363986427977962013-01-24T19:05:00.002+08:002013-01-24T19:05:34.277+08:00彼此多付出一點<span style="font-family: 宋体;">古老的阿拉伯世界流傳一則充滿智慧的故事:有位老人死後留下了十七隻駱駝及一張遺囑給他的三個兒子。依照遺囑的劃分,老大可以得到一半數量的駱駝,老二則是三分之一,老三則是九分之一。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-15585235417639751862013-01-24T19:04:00.003+08:002013-01-24T19:04:51.737+08:00緣來緣去皆是福 <span style="font-family: 宋体;">龍山的善國寺有兩個和尚:悟空和悟了。一開始他們每天都出去化緣,後來就只有悟空天天出去化緣了。</span><span lang="EN-US"> </span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-61040497065636509302013-01-24T19:03:00.001+08:002013-01-24T19:03:36.363+08:00The Window 窗<span style="font-family: 宋体;">一对夫妇搬进一所新的房子。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-39016900519095992242013-01-24T19:00:00.001+08:002013-01-24T19:00:18.491+08:00撈魚哲學<span style="font-family: 宋体;">昨夜,心生無聊,一個人到市集逛逛。</span><br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-76321837617000523212012-12-14T13:42:00.001+08:002012-12-14T13:42:29.974+08:00幸福藏在糊塗裡<br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-38043237136459493742012-12-07T13:23:00.003+08:002012-12-07T13:23:26.140+08:00 學會面對『失去』 <br />
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<div class="blogger-post-footer">学习成就未来,用心就是专业!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09369794379759848176noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5107802900371867531.post-16684616857550254872012-12-05T13:17:00.000+08:002012-12-05T13:17:41.612+08:00心~不是固定资产<br />
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